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Rate yourself from 1 to 5 on each statement. The audit is for you, not for show — answer honestly.

Rating scale

Section 1: Role Clarity

I allow the coach to coach during games.

I avoid giving tactical instructions from the sideline.

I understand what I control and what I do not control.

I do not use the car ride home as a performance review.

I support my child before evaluating their performance.

Subtotal: 0 / 25

Section 2: Decision Discipline

I know the true annual cost of my child's soccer.

I can explain why we are in our current club or program.

I know what problem private training is solving, if we use it.

I do not buy camps, showcases, or programs just because of the logo.

I ask for evidence before making major soccer decisions.

Subtotal: 0 / 25

Section 3: Emotional Control

I do not yell at referees.

I do not criticize teammates from the sideline.

I do not compare my child to other players in harmful ways.

I wait before sending emotional messages to coaches.

I can separate my child's value from their soccer performance.

Subtotal: 0 / 25

Section 4: Player Support

I know my child's actual soccer goals.

I know whether my child is tired, injured, or burned out.

I protect school performance.

I protect sleep and recovery.

I help my child take ownership instead of managing everything for them.

Subtotal: 0 / 25

Reflection

After scoring, capture one specific behavior change you can commit to this week.

What did you notice while scoring yourself?

During games, I will no longer…

Total

0 / 100

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